He’s going to be the greatest guy…until he isn’t.
Your friends will love the way he makes you laugh…until he won’t allow you to be their friend anymore.
They’ll think it’s just you being in love. So, they don’t think much of it.
Your family will adore the way he holds you close…until they see the look on your face.
They’ll believe the lie you tell them… again. I’m tired. I’m stressed. I’m really happy. So, they don’t think much of it.
Your neighbors will think he’s the greatest guy, always working on things around the house… until they hear the shouts and cries late one night.
They’ll believe it was just a lover’s quarrel, and no one really wants to get involved anyway. So, they don’t think much of it.
On first glance, no one would believe the guy who carries the conversation like him, always offers a helping hand, talks about protecting you, and generally looks like a normal, clean cut guy would be who he is.
But when the shadows fall and you’re all alone,
You’ll believe the words he says when he tells you if you could just be trusted he’d give your debit card.
You’ll just know he’s right when he says it’s your fault he can’t trust you.
You’ll absolutely believe he just gets so angry because he loves you.
As you dry your tears, he’ll comfort you with a quiet
I’m sorry I had to yell like that
You just make me crazy when other men look at you
I love you too much to not make sure you love me too.
I wish you’d remember when I tell you not to say certain things.
I wish you’d just put dinner on when it’s time.
I wish you’d not hide things from me.
Then, while you’re driving to work careful not to make an extra turn, in your mind you hope,
Today is finally the time he’ll believe you
Today is the last time you have to send him pictures of where you are, show him receipts, and let him check your phone
Today will be the last time he writes down the mileage on your car.
And it could be
Because today could be the day he finally snaps.
Today could be the day his “love” makes him tighten the grip around your neck a little too much, a little too long.
Today could be the day he finally pulls the trigger.
But you don’t leave because no one will ever believe a guy like him in the daylight, a guy who wears a suit and washes his car twice a week, could be the monster he becomes in the dark when no one is looking.
Who would you tell anyway?
Emotional abuse isn’t a crime
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